Originally Posted by Jaire
I offer nothing.
I cannot find anyone else like me as I am, or who likes what I like. |
I am just not good around the opposite of sex. Never know what to say or how to hold up a conversation.
More over I get worried once they find out who I really am they won't like me.
You'll grow out of this. Your likes and dislikes aren't your weakness, so make them a strength.
Being introverted, you probably don't even notice most of the opportunities you have. I certainly didn't until recently, and I'm a bit older than you. As for not doing well around women... 80 percent of the people I've ever worked with were women. They can be every bit as ditsy and or normal as you can imagine.
It makes them easier to talk to when you can see their more human side beyond the unattainable Goddess persona that we guys often imagine... Try to see the human first, then you can treat her like a Goddess if you like.
It could all start for you with something so simple as a smile, I think. (I'm going to try all of this soon...seriously)