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Lioness · 23rd June 2008, 12:26 PM

Yeah...he's 15, and it's not so much as a total video game nerd...he just really really likes Halo.

Majimaune · 24th June 2008, 08:37 AM

Ah Halo is alright then. You see I'm a D&D nerd and I still get people after me even though they know I'm a massive nerd.

tangaloomababe · 24th June 2008, 09:51 AM

Tempted to go with the motherly speil, but thats me. However I agree with most of the comments, if he has a girl friend then really you should leave well alone, there are plenty more out there and if he does come onto you, knowing full well he has a girlfriend, then yes you cannot trust him in the future but I loved OLD WALLY's story and some things do just happen.
Maybe just be his friend, if its meant to be, then it will happen in time, just be patient and if something better comes along, go for it!!!
No Mark not all men are pigs, but there is a pretty fully sty of them out there nevertheless.

Lioness · 24th June 2008, 10:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Majimaune

Ah Halo is alright then. You see I'm a D&D nerd and I still get people after me even though they know I'm a massive nerd.

He's into D&D as well...him and one of my other friends...they don't like 4th ed, but that's an entirely different subject, so I'll shut up now. ( I tried D&D, liked it, then mum said I couldn't do it because our weekends were too busy...

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Majimaune · 25th June 2008, 09:31 AM

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Originally Posted by Lioness

He's into D&D as well...him and one of my other friends...they don't like 4th ed, but that's an entirely different subject, so I'll shut up now. ( I tried D&D, liked it, then mum said I couldn't do it because our weekends were too busy...

)

That sucks...I'm going to start a D&D thread.

Just remeber, being stuck in the "friend zone" isn't all that bad. I got stuck in the friend zone with my best friend and now we are closer than anything. We tell each other absolutely everything that is happening in out lives.

TheEndIsNigh · 25th June 2008, 12:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Lioness

He's a computer and video game nerd (though that isn't always bad) and he hates kids to the point of giving them a berth of maybe 50 metres when he can.

Now now there's nothing wrong with a nerd and I've played with computers for more that two weeks so that can't be bad either. The children thing - I came round eventually so there hope although you may have to dig yourself in for the long haul (took me 36 years)

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Originally Posted by Lioness

Yeah...he's 15, and it's not so much as a total video game nerd...he just really really likes Halo.

Is that 15 physically or 15 mentally or both.

Lioness · 25th June 2008, 01:03 PM

Haha...physically 15...mentally: usually 15 but occasionally about 4...when he's in a silly mood he's random and entertained by small things.

Majimaune · 27th June 2008, 04:39 AM

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Originally Posted by Lioness

Haha...physically 15...mentally: usually 15 but occasionally about 4...when he's in a silly mood he's random and entertained by small things.

Aren't we all entertained by small things occassionally or is that a teenage guy thing?

Well I'm screwed over. I think I like my best friend's ex girl friend. Fun fun. Every time I look at her I just hear this voice going YOU CAN'T HAVE HER! HE STILL LIKES HER! IT DOESN'T MATTER IF SHE LIKES YOU BACK! SHE IS OUT OF BOUNDS!

manephelien · 27th June 2008, 08:31 AM

Old Wally's story proves that all hope isn't lost. However, for now you'd best try to be just friends with him, knowing he has a girlfriend. But as others have said, if he comes on to you while still dating the other girl, he'll only make you unhappy. First, he can't be trusted, and if the relationship is cooling, he may be one of those who's always looking for the greener pastures on the other side of the fence, i.e. even if you got together it might be only until he found someone even more interesting. Some people never stop looking for someone else even when they're in a relationship.

Majimaune · 27th June 2008, 08:49 AM

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Originally Posted by manephelien

First, he can't be trusted, and if the relationship is cooling, he may be one of those who's always looking for the greener pastures on the other side of the fence, i.e. even if you got together it might be only until he found someone even more interesting. Some people never stop looking for someone else even when they're in a relationship.

Why aren't I saying any of this stuff? This just frickin happened to me... although it was her in the relationship that came to me and then went off with one of who I thought was my friends.

DO NOT GET WITH HIM IF HE IS IN A RELATIONSHIP AND TRYING TO GET CLOSE TO YOU!

mosaix · 27th June 2008, 05:10 PM

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Originally Posted by animal_lover_06

kewl sorry about the placing :S thanx for all the comments

I know this is off topic animal_lover but I just have to ask. The word 'kewl' that you typed, was that supposed to be 'cool'?

I know I'm going to regret asking this but why?

Tansy · 27th June 2008, 05:35 PM

it's a "yoof thang" mosaix

TheEndIsNigh · 27th June 2008, 07:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Majimaune

Aren't we all entertained by small things occassionally or is that a teenage guy thing?

Well I'm screwed over. I think I like my best friend's ex girl friend. Fun fun. Every time I look at her I just hear this voice going YOU CAN'T HAVE HER! HE STILL LIKES HER! IT DOESN'T MATTER IF SHE LIKES YOU BACK! SHE IS OUT OF BOUNDS!

Out of bounds for now. But even in the short time we all have left there may be a time it will be ok. Allow a suitable period of 'get over her time' or maybe until he finds his next girlfriend then you could ask him if he would be ok with you asking her out.

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Originally Posted by Tansy

it's a "yoof thang" mosaix

LOL.

Tansy · 27th June 2008, 07:13 PM

I guess it depends how much you like him and if you are willing to screw up some other girls life to get him?

Holding out on guy will make him realise you aren't a pushover and you will only accept him on your terms, however, he could just think whatever and move on. Least then you know he wasn't worth it.

Ask yourself what is it about him that is so special, what need does he fulfill in you?

If you do decide to go for it be prepared to accept the consequences, either the other girl turning up on your doorstep ready to lynch you, or him breaking your heart.. however, if you do go for it then be prepared that once you have him you might wonder what all the fuss was about and dump him , or live happily ever after.

I guess what I am trying to say is weigh upt he situation and do what you have to do. If it goes wrong, learn from it. Other people can't make decisions for you, that you have to do yourself.. just make sure you can handle the fall out

Live is for living.. the best way to learn is by making your own mistakes, living through them and not repeating them

Oh and NEVER follow advice you get on t'internet

animal_lover_06 · 27th June 2008, 08:18 PM

Well. The friend I believe is biased never did or said anything to him but i told another close friend and she asked if he'd go out with me and he said yes. He told her he would dump his girlfriend. I feel horrible that I might have split them up. Is this too risky? :S

23rd June 2008, 12:26 PM	#16 (permalink)
Lioness I am not sane Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Australia, South Australia Posts: 609	Re: Help With a Boy . Yeah...he's 15, and it's not so much as a total video game nerd...he just really really likes Halo.

24th June 2008, 08:37 AM	#17 (permalink)
Majimaune Actum pro novus diem Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Australia, New South Wales Posts: 2,234 Blog Entries: 1	Re: Help With a Boy . Ah Halo is alright then. You see I'm a D&D nerd and I still get people after me even though they know I'm a massive nerd.

24th June 2008, 09:51 AM	#18 (permalink)
tangaloomababe Living in Paradise Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Australia Posts: 1,233 Blog Entries: 1	Re: Help With a Boy . Tempted to go with the motherly speil, but thats me. However I agree with most of the comments, if he has a girl friend then really you should leave well alone, there are plenty more out there and if he does come onto you, knowing full well he has a girlfriend, then yes you cannot trust him in the future but I loved OLD WALLY's story and some things do just happen. Maybe just be his friend, if its meant to be, then it will happen in time, just be patient and if something better comes along, go for it!!! No Mark not all men are pigs, but there is a pretty fully sty of them out there nevertheless.

25th June 2008, 01:03 PM	#22 (permalink)
Lioness I am not sane Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Australia, South Australia Posts: 609	Re: Help With a Boy . Haha...physically 15...mentally: usually 15 but occasionally about 4...when he's in a silly mood he's random and entertained by small things.

27th June 2008, 08:31 AM	#24 (permalink)
manephelien Transmural Feline Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Finland Posts: 721	Re: Help With a Boy . Old Wally's story proves that all hope isn't lost. However, for now you'd best try to be just friends with him, knowing he has a girlfriend. But as others have said, if he comes on to you while still dating the other girl, he'll only make you unhappy. First, he can't be trusted, and if the relationship is cooling, he may be one of those who's always looking for the greener pastures on the other side of the fence, i.e. even if you got together it might be only until he found someone even more interesting. Some people never stop looking for someone else even when they're in a relationship.

27th June 2008, 05:35 PM	#27 (permalink)
Tansy Northern Monkey Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: UK: ENGLAND: Posts: 721 Blog Entries: 2	Re: Help With a Boy . it's a "yoof thang" mosaix

27th June 2008, 07:13 PM	#29 (permalink)
Tansy Northern Monkey Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: UK: ENGLAND: Posts: 721 Blog Entries: 2	Re: Help With a Boy . I guess it depends how much you like him and if you are willing to screw up some other girls life to get him? Holding out on guy will make him realise you aren't a pushover and you will only accept him on your terms, however, he could just think whatever and move on. Least then you know he wasn't worth it. Ask yourself what is it about him that is so special, what need does he fulfill in you? If you do decide to go for it be prepared to accept the consequences, either the other girl turning up on your doorstep ready to lynch you, or him breaking your heart.. however, if you do go for it then be prepared that once you have him you might wonder what all the fuss was about and dump him , or live happily ever after. I guess what I am trying to say is weigh upt he situation and do what you have to do. If it goes wrong, learn from it. Other people can't make decisions for you, that you have to do yourself.. just make sure you can handle the fall out Live is for living.. the best way to learn is by making your own mistakes, living through them and not repeating them Oh and NEVER follow advice you get on t'internet

27th June 2008, 08:18 PM	#30 (permalink)
animal_lover_06 Hearts Burst Into Fire Join Date: May 2008 Location: City of Glasgow Posts: 22	Re: Help With a Boy . Well. The friend I believe is biased never did or said anything to him but i told another close friend and she asked if he'd go out with me and he said yes. He told her he would dump his girlfriend. I feel horrible that I might have split them up. Is this too risky? :S

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