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little star · 29th July 2001, 04:05 AM

Which traits are most important to you?

My choices would probably be similar interests/outlook on life & intelligence, though the other choices aren't bad either!

little star :star:

Skip · 29th July 2001, 10:23 AM

similar outlook and humour both important, loyalty and kindness as well

Maria8475 · 29th July 2001, 04:39 PM

i'm agreeing with Little Star, similar interests and intelliegence and of course loyality - be kinda hard to have a relationship otherwise. i guess the same's true for trust.

imported_scifimoth · 29th July 2001, 05:43 PM

I voted other simply because there are several things that a important in a partner I think.
Intelligence, a sense of humor, honesty and loyalty, the ability to be a good friend and so on and so forth.
Someone that can match you on all those levels.....

imported_Bee · 29th July 2001, 05:55 PM

I voted other, because I think that to have a good relationship you have to have similar interests, intelligence and a good sense of humor. Looks come and go, so you can't vote for that. And have you ever known someone that was very attractive, but their personality was the pits? After awhile they don't look as attractive as you first thought.

imported_scifimoth · 29th July 2001, 05:58 PM

Yep yep...met lots of people like that.....
Yet another reason to add some chlorine to the genepool LOL

imported_Bee · 29th July 2001, 06:04 PM

LOL!!! :lol:

I could not agree with you more.

imported_scifimoth · 29th July 2001, 06:09 PM

I just thought of another quality that is very very important at least for me in a partner.....he has to absolutely love animals and exspecially dogs (better yet my dogs LOL)!!!

imported_Bee · 29th July 2001, 06:11 PM

My would be that he would not like cats. I'm allergic to them. Either he doesn't like them or he likes women with red eyes and runny noses

imported_scifimoth · 29th July 2001, 06:13 PM

LOL......
I will make sure not to bring my kitty to ascifi so that you don't have an allergy attack

imported_Bee · 29th July 2001, 06:16 PM

Just tell me first, so I can take my medicine

imported_scifimoth · 29th July 2001, 06:21 PM

=^-^= MIOW

imported_Bee · 29th July 2001, 06:24 PM

LOL!!!!!

mr.pointy · 29th July 2001, 11:06 PM

i voted similar interests/outlook on life...even tho intelligence, great bod and money wud be nice as well, of course as loyalty and sense of humour...

little star · 2nd August 2001, 02:37 AM

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Originally posted by Bee
And have you ever known someone that was very attractive, but their personality was the pits? After awhile they don't look as attractive as you first thought.

Definitely!! And the opposite is also true----maybe someone doesn't strike you as unusually attractive at first, but if they have a great personality, they actually start to look better.

How could I forget loyalty on the poll??? (Actually, thought of it right after I posted, but did not go back to change the poll.) How can you do without it???

little star :star:

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29th July 2001, 10:23 AM	#2 (permalink)
Skip Odi et amo et- CRUCIO! Join Date: Oct 2000 Location: Manchester. UK. Or near as dammit. Posts: 4,670	similar outlook and humour both important, loyalty and kindness as well

29th July 2001, 04:39 PM	#3 (permalink)
Maria8475 It goes on..... Join Date: Apr 2001 Posts: 4,690	i'm agreeing with Little Star, similar interests and intelliegence and of course loyality - be kinda hard to have a relationship otherwise. i guess the same's true for trust.

29th July 2001, 05:43 PM	#4 (permalink)
imported_scifimoth You....off my planet!!! Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: In my own little world, but it's okay they know me here!!! Posts: 201	I voted other simply because there are several things that a important in a partner I think. Intelligence, a sense of humor, honesty and loyalty, the ability to be a good friend and so on and so forth. Someone that can match you on all those levels.....

29th July 2001, 05:55 PM	#5 (permalink)
imported_Bee Who likes to play w/Legos Join Date: May 2001 Location: Missouri Posts: 1,766	I voted other, because I think that to have a good relationship you have to have similar interests, intelligence and a good sense of humor. Looks come and go, so you can't vote for that. And have you ever known someone that was very attractive, but their personality was the pits? After awhile they don't look as attractive as you first thought.

29th July 2001, 05:58 PM	#6 (permalink)
imported_scifimoth You....off my planet!!! Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: In my own little world, but it's okay they know me here!!! Posts: 201	Yep yep...met lots of people like that..... Yet another reason to add some chlorine to the genepool LOL

29th July 2001, 06:04 PM	#7 (permalink)
imported_Bee Who likes to play w/Legos Join Date: May 2001 Location: Missouri Posts: 1,766	LOL!!! :lol: I could not agree with you more.

29th July 2001, 06:09 PM	#8 (permalink)
imported_scifimoth You....off my planet!!! Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: In my own little world, but it's okay they know me here!!! Posts: 201	I just thought of another quality that is very very important at least for me in a partner.....he has to absolutely love animals and exspecially dogs (better yet my dogs LOL)!!!

29th July 2001, 06:11 PM	#9 (permalink)
imported_Bee Who likes to play w/Legos Join Date: May 2001 Location: Missouri Posts: 1,766	My would be that he would not like cats. I'm allergic to them. Either he doesn't like them or he likes women with red eyes and runny noses

29th July 2001, 06:13 PM	#10 (permalink)
imported_scifimoth You....off my planet!!! Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: In my own little world, but it's okay they know me here!!! Posts: 201	LOL...... I will make sure not to bring my kitty to ascifi so that you don't have an allergy attack

29th July 2001, 06:16 PM	#11 (permalink)
imported_Bee Who likes to play w/Legos Join Date: May 2001 Location: Missouri Posts: 1,766	Just tell me first, so I can take my medicine

29th July 2001, 06:21 PM	#12 (permalink)
imported_scifimoth You....off my planet!!! Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: In my own little world, but it's okay they know me here!!! Posts: 201	=^-^= MIOW

29th July 2001, 06:24 PM	#13 (permalink)
imported_Bee Who likes to play w/Legos Join Date: May 2001 Location: Missouri Posts: 1,766	LOL!!!!!

29th July 2001, 11:06 PM	#14 (permalink)
mr.pointy Pray 2 da god Joss Whedon Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: 1630 Revello Drive, Sunnydale, Calafornia Posts: 1,331	i voted similar interests/outlook on life...even tho intelligence, great bod and money wud be nice as well, of course as loyalty and sense of humour...