Re: So i need some suggestions..
Er... off the top of my head: Robin McKinley's Damar books, the Patrick Rothfuss books (at least the first one, I haven't read the second yet -- saving it up), um... I blush to suggest it, but the True Blood books (mind-reading waitress), the Magic Strikes etc. books, er... a long long time ago Judith Tarr wrote some books about a monk called Alfred. It's been a long time since I read them, but I think they're told in fairly close 3rd person POV.
You might have more luck looking at YA books -- I think fewer of those do the mind hopping thing than books for grown ups.